Yeah!, some keen followers of my past writings will wonder why this statement about my gender huhn? Well, when reality beckons I cannot but yield so as to free my conscience. Facts are facts and will not disappear according to our likes.
The predominant obsession these days is about women dressing explicitly, nudity, gold digging, women and careers, moral bankruptcy etc.
Sometimes I stop to think of this gender based bias and my heart is baffled by the intriguing findings I come across,
It’s funny how almost all guys dream and keep on searching for a God fearing wife while we ourselves are not down to earth and God fearing,
It’s funny how we want a neat and tidy wife while we smell of sweat and dirt with unkempt hair all over,
It’s funny how we want to marry loving and caring wives while we are so much absorbed in our careers and we hardly find time to care or love properly [love is a two way thing you know!],
It’s funny how we want a wife that should wake up early, do the domestic chores, fix breakfast, prepare the kids for school etc, while we wake up late and grumble when asked to drop the kids at school,
It’s funny how an adulterous husband is passed away as an adventurous male that will stop some day, while an adulterous wife is labeled a disgrace to womanhood, marriage sanctity and a blasphemous creature,
It’s funny how men become older, richer, more educated and become more wanted by ladies, while the more education, wealth and age a girl accumulates the more despised she becomes by men,
It’s funny how we wear body hugging shirts and tight jeans to show off our biceps while the lady in the body hugging attire is whore,
It’s funny how a guy impregnates a girl and gets scolded for a day while she has to bear the scorn for nine enduring months,
It’s funny how women are still not equal and just alongside men,
It’s a man’s world!, yeah! right,
Are we being fair to the ladies?
Where is the justice?
Where is the equality?
Where is the love?,
It’s funny, how ironically ladies are systematically robbed of their God given rights,
Let us be just and exemplary to women not feministic, it’s funny how… huhn?
Muhammad Tijjani Nakande is a freelance writer, wrote in from Kano state Nigeria.
Wednesday, October 21, 2009
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nice one because it needs no addition and lets both sides be cautioned.
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